Well first off, it means he has his life in order, I don't even date unless my career and financial life are stable. Next, I've dated super liberal and incredibly conservative gals and you know what they all have in common? Women want to be with men who have a strong calling in life, who are busy building things with meaning, who have lives outside of them and the potential relationship they might be having, and as silly as this is gonna sound, us paying for dinner and movie (or to go dancing) is kind a small flex that all is well and that this isn't gonna be a theme with us.

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A Clay Lamb

A Clay Lamb

I like speaking the truth even though it gets me into trouble.