This is the one that is the hardest to explain to other men, if you do not have an overall driving purpose in life and a community before you meet "the one" what you will most likely do, is as you said, over-invest all of your time and energy into the other person. In other words, it will be awful for the other person, meanwhile, if your life is balanced, you have healthy boundaries with others, good lasting real relationships with people who are building their lives as well, and you make time for her and in turn, it feels special and sacred.

Well, put, Annie.

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A Clay Lamb

A Clay Lamb

I like speaking the truth even though it gets me into trouble.