Obviously, if this is the only bar of entry you have this is a base stupid thing to judge someone's compatibility on, one of my buddies broke up with a girl he really liked because she never offered to pay the bill, met his wife to be after dumping her lol

I broke up with my last ex for simular reasons she used traditional gender roles and our religion as a weapon to guilt me into paying for everything all the time. For that and other reasons, I dumped her hard. I'm not your piggy bank, and I'm not your doormat, but for a good woman who is loving and fair, I would gladly pick up the check every time as long as it made sense and the life we were building was ours not just one of us always coming up all aces, you dig?

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A Clay Lamb

A Clay Lamb

I like speaking the truth even though it gets me into trouble.