My experience as a man is this, get busy working towards your calling in life. If you don't know what it is, get busy figuring it out. Then from there prioritize all the people who really love you, and make time for them no matter what to the best of your abilities.

Finally, when you met the right one (or rather ones that are right for your consideration) you will make time for them too but unlike a person whose entire aim is simply "snagging a beautiful woman," you want to make the relationship your everything, which in turn will be hell for the other. Instead, your time together is a gift, you stay focused on what really matters, and in turn, a woman, a good woman will just want to be a part of your life, not a poor substitute for building one of our own.

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A Clay Lamb

A Clay Lamb

I like speaking the truth even though it gets me into trouble.