I think that at the end of the day, it's just people making individual choices, and the over-emphasis on one gender over the other is like talking about a type of tree instead of the whole forest.

So to answer your question more directly, we would go back and forth forever pointing out study after study about how this gender does this, and that one does the other, but the only conversation that matters here is who are we, what do we do, and how do we find one other person who will do the same,

Just my two cents.

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A Clay Lamb

A Clay Lamb

I like speaking the truth even though it gets me into trouble.